Put's other needs first and neglects their own needs

Submissive, gives in to others

May feel resentment and victimized 

Uses sarcasm

Expresses feelings, thoughts and needs without threatening others

Puts their needs first at the expense of others

Direct, clear and honest with communication 

Appears cooperative but then is disruptive or subtly sabotages

Uses hostile and abusive language

Appear passive but then act out their anger in indirect ways