Sorting out mixed feelings is best done,
according to the authors of the Transformative Counselling Encounters study
guide, by - - - - -

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Carefully bringing out additional specifics of the client's emotional world.

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Using the exact words of the client.

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Paraphrasing feelings clearly, encouraging, and then summarising.

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Noting ambivalent words such as "confusion" and discovering underlying deeper feelings through questioning and reflection of feeling.

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