Kanat receives a late-night message from a classmate, Dinara, asking personal questions about his relationship status. This makes Kanat uncomfortable, as he prefers to keep his personal life private.
Which response is the best way for Kanat to set a boundary?

Question

Kanat receives a late-night message from a classmate, Dinara, asking personal questions about his relationship status. This makes Kanat uncomfortable, as he prefers to keep his personal life private. 
 Which response is the best way for Kanat to set a boundary?

Accepted Answer

“Dinara, I’m not comfortable discussing my personal life. Can we keep our conversations focused on our studies?”

Answer

“Why are you asking me these questions? It’s none of your business.”

Answer

Ignore the message and hope Dinara stops sending personal questions.

Answer

Respond to Dinara with similar personal questions to make her realize how uncomfortable it is.

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