The counsellor who is in touch with her/his own woundedness and uses that to deepen her/his own empathic understanding of the client’s painful experience.

The other three options provided are all correct.

The counsellor who is in touch with her/his emotional state and is aware of the impact of her his behaviour on clients’ perceptions of themselves during the counselling encounter.

The counsellor who is aware that reality is co-constructed, therefore her/his own views of the client’s reality cannot be the only reality.